connielingus

- reflections of my life as an airplane-fixing, lady-loving, first generation eurotrash-canadian grrrly-grrrl..... -

Saturday, April 01, 2006

A Matter of Life and Death


Well, I just returned from jolly ol' England on Wednesday after attending the end of life and funeral of my poor ol' Grandad.

He was 82.

- My Grandad was an RAF pilot in WW2.
- He flew Spitfires and Hurricanes in the Battle of Burma.
- He told the greatest stories about those years, even if they weren't fully true.
- He lived through TB and losing a lung that almost killed him during the war at age 21.
- My Grandma and Grandad moved to Canada in 1981 and lived here for 20 years before deciding to go back to live in Harvington, England in 2002.
- He taught me how to ride a bike, build a campfire, shoot a gun and various other useful things in life.
- He made me love aircraft and flying... so therefore made me who I am today.

I miss him and I had so much respect.



All in all, it was possibly the longest, strangest week and a half of my life.

-----> England is definitely for the English.....Hopefully it is the final moments of Tony Blair.... My Family puts the FUNK in Disfunctional.... It is amazing how much money a last minute trip to the other side of the world actually costs....I love Tesco Sandwiches, Old Peculiar, and Sainsbury Curries....

****And what the Fuck is so special about the Arctic Monkeys?....****



But despite all that, Cheers to you JFD... We can all only hope to have such a brilliant and full life.
You had a profound effect on me and I will remember you forever for that.

xoxoxox Connie

I had your last pint of Guinness for you Grandad. ;)

8 Comments:

At 3:20 AM, Blogger Sniffy said...

What a lovely testimonial. You're such a softie, ain't ya? You should print that off and frame it and put it by his grave or memorial or something.

 
At 7:54 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Sounds like a great life... all except for letting you get that last Guinness. Grand daughters are tricksy nowadays.
Sorry about that Conn.

 
At 12:25 PM, Blogger Unknown said...

Sorry to hear about your Grandad.

Now is that the Harvington near Kidderminster
or the one near Evesham?

 
At 11:17 PM, Blogger the author said...

Sorry to hear about your grandad. Hope you are doing ok.

What a great way of reminding him - through tools he gave you for life! How is your mom doing? Did you guys all go back together?

Well my love to you guys - take care of yourselves. And if nothing can perk up your day I just think about us talking about dishfingers and that makes me crack a smile everytime.

 
At 11:19 PM, Blogger the author said...

um - I suck at typing after 10pm - I meant remembering him... lord... I need to go to bed.

 
At 3:28 AM, Blogger straighttalker05 said...

Sorry to hear about your loss. These things come to us all...

I can't understand the artic monkeys thing either - but they are slightly better than a model boyband...

 
At 3:29 AM, Blogger straighttalker05 said...

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At 8:09 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Your grandad sounded like a great guy Connie. Hang in there...

April - the other one.

 

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